Give and take
I feel bad for my last post. It was followed-up by a brain fart and so I developed an urge to write something again.Have you ever wondered why some friends drop out of your life suddenly? It usually stems from one reason - "we aren't in-sync".
When in-sync, it means 'you two have the expectations from each other satisfied' or 'you both don't take more what you give'.
Don't worry. Did you know that when you stop communicating for a while, it is good. Not because you don't have time (which is mistakenly the cause of dispersing of your friends). It's because you know you two are still in sync even you are not talking everyday. I think that's the best level of friendship. If you have a lot of friends who are like that - you're good at keeping relationships.
The people below are those whose expectations I've got pretty set. Like they say, don't say "thank you" to your friends, because you don't ever get separated from them. Instead, be grateful. In fact I am.
Take the story of my blogging for example. The person who got me started in blogging - we rarely talk anymore, but hey whenever we bump into each other online, we still have the chemistry. (Sher)
And there's her friend, a junior in our field, who wanted the kick-ass car, and now is yearning for her independence. Screw the car ba kamo, Cherrie? =P
And of course, the sidekick, Apryll, our IT-turned nursing graduate. So, when can I have you take care of me? hehehe
And there's another one, the teacher, tv-personality wannabe. Rhia, you should really get your stuff together and audition. You won't be young forever ya'know.
Then after that, came friends I ran into by exchanging similar thoughts about religion. After a comment on her blog, there we have it - another link. ( yep, that's Jennie ).
Continuing the link, I caught an interesting site - Random scribbles of a mad Kat. Well, she isn't mad all the time hehehe. Call center people are really models for patience, damn...
Back in my college days, I was mentor to many. One of which who stayed in touch is now a successful doctor, Julsitos. If I had the money, I'd fund his campaign should he decide to run for president. (forget it pare, it's just too screwed even for an idealist like you).
Browsing from Julsitos' blog, a doctor-fan of the anime culture, I stumbled upon "My Life In a Spoon". Catchy title. Obsessed with reaching 110 lbs and drinks too much coffee. There, I had another suki. (That's jeyaiy.)
An old friend from my previous work, who programs for peanuts and writes poetry and notes for a famous local newspaper, yep, Levin is a sure-visit.
I was a fan of someone who blogged a long time ago. She stopped for a while. I didn't have the diligence to comment on every one of her posts, so after seeing that she has returned to the blogging world, look where she is on my links. =D ( yesh, that's the saint )
Of course, how could I forget - the street-smart 5'3" MBA top notcher, who's blog is definitely a frequented one, as I am always amused at the terms she uses and her experiences in makati. Oh and I am big fan of Jaz's "image" hehehe.
To all of you (and the other anonymous readers), as you're reading this, I hope you are having a good time with whatever you're doing, coz I am. ^_o
posted by Urban Warrior @ 11:44 PM
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