Urban Warrior Cybercafe: Why you shouldn't stop (being pretty)

11.23.2005

Why you shouldn't stop (being pretty)

I was looking through old photographs while cleaning at home. I was searching for stuff to recycle (and throw away). I happened to come across pictures of abandoned relatives. By "abandoned" I mean they were the people who left their husbands/wives here for other people.

When I was younger, I used to be always angry at these people, because they did the leaving. But now that I feed myself, I slowly understood these people as to why they had to go. There was a reason for it all (the wife stopped being pretty, the husband had no ambition, the wife stopped being caring and submissive, the husband had no more money). So yeah, there was something common amongst those.

Contrary to popular belief, every action that people do has a reason. No, there is no such as thing as "basta", "wala lang", "nothing". THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON.

There is always a reason why your spouse or your significant other will leave you.

A post from Jennie had this summary of behavior of men. One which will (okay, make you laugh) make you think if your actions as a man fits the observations she has made. They are for the most part, true. Men aren't really hard to read at all. She hit the nail on the head - most girls insist on the icing - she calls it the "bullshit". Way to go, girl. ^_^

Let's dig deeper. Somewhere in the posts was a phrase about keeping each other on his/her toes. It is in essence, the secret for any relationship to WORK. When I say this, I mean ANY relationship (between friends even). Keep each other cared for, don't stop being sweet after saying yes, and for fuck's sake, whenever you have sex, always do it like newlyweds.

Right now I am no longer angry with those people who did the leaving. After all, I'd rather have them be true to themselves instead of lie to the people who love them about how they really feel about the relationship. So that everyone can keep on living with their right place in the world.