Dear Sue Vol. 2
[ The following post is a work of fiction. All names, places, events and dates similar to real-life counterparts are purely coincidential. ]Dear Sue,
Thank you for dropping by the other day for coffee. Unfortunately we are both busy people, so I won't complain if we could only spare an hour the most. Don't worry, next time maybe I'll meet you while you're shopping - so that technically makes it a whole day-meeting no?
Anyway, back to business..
You have really learned from my last e-mail. And after your last "endeavor" (don't worry, I wasn't referring to your boo-boo), it looks like you're playing your cards right this timen around. Now wait, don't get me started and all.. this time around, it's the guy's fault.
Yes, it's Robert's fault.
That guy has no balls at all.
[ I told you I'm impartial whenever it comes to the "rules of engagement", a guy is most definitely not always right ]
I have encountered guys like these before - the kind who can't tell it to your face that they like you. Here you are, making best effort to produce that environment conducive for him to tell you that he likes you; but what DOES he tell you? He asks if "if there is a chance that you could me more than friends?". That's it? And what after that? Don't worry about what you reply. Whenever it comes to admitting feelings, they are like binary digits. It's a 1 or a 0. It's Like or Not Like. It's Love or Friends-only.
As long as you didn't hear the words "I Like you" or anything more intimate than that - he is playing safe. Stay away from guys like that. They don't have what it takes to be your guy. [Yeah yeah I know you were assuming but sorry, since there is no formal documentation on feeling admittance, only those words are concrete proof. Not even all the flowers at Holland Blooms sent to your office will convey the same message].
What pissed me off also, was that when he tried to hold your hand (or anything more estrogen-producing), he stopped seeing you after you shunned his hand away. Well it's natural that you didn't let him (after all, he didn't tell you that he liked you, so why was he doing that? He hasn't "paid" so why is he "playing"?). Man, if I was that guy, and I wanted you, puta I'd do anything for a "recovery". But look, where is he now? He's probably made up his mind about you and chickened out. The loss isn't yours at all. If he can't muster the courage - THE manly courage for simple things like telling you if he really wants you or not-- while you are friends, what more if he's your husband? Much less, your boyfriend?
Eye-opening isn't it? But I know you are not sad this time, instead, smiling after realizing that the one that got away isn't always for you. Just let your nails dry, and this time, better finish those DVDs I lent you, my officemate is bugging me to return them already.
So that's it for now. Almost there.. ^_o
Regards,
Kiko
P.S. Lately, I hang out with Kelly at the mall sometimes when she needs company before her guy picks her up in the evening, so whenever you're around, join us.
posted by Urban Warrior @ 8:01 AM
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